{"id":5118,"date":"2021-11-17T20:02:34","date_gmt":"2021-11-17T20:02:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gamportfolio.drkretz.knight.domains\/portfolios\/destroy-boys\/"},"modified":"2021-11-17T20:02:34","modified_gmt":"2021-11-17T20:02:34","slug":"destroy-boys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gamportfolio.drkretz.knight.domains\/portfolios\/destroy-boys\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Destroy Boys&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The song I analyzed for my 19th post is the song &#8220;Drink&#8221; by Destroy Boys. Given just the name of the band, one can imagine there is a lot to unpack here in terms of the Sex Role Theory.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>First of all, the songs lyrics of &#8220;Drink&#8221; give the viewer the idea that heteronormativity should not be expected. The lead singer, Alexia Roditis, uses the pronouns they\/them and outwardly identifies as a lesbian on their social media. Knowing this about their identity is helpful when analyzing the lyrics.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Heavens send someone down, I&#8217;m &#8217;bout to turn this confession to a smoke cloud, who put me here? It&#8217;s hard to say. Nails bleed as I claw out of the grave. I want to play guitar but I reach for a glass, she says that I&#8217;m a star, that I won&#8217;t last.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>(Chorus): &#8220;She understands me like you did, she really loves me, I&#8217;m a saint living in sin. Oh she really loathes me, she really loves me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I see the sun rise, I try everything to calm my nervous mind, I don&#8217;t wanna let go control, don&#8217;t like feeling alone, at least I know what I&#8217;ve seen, these thorns run through my family, at least I know at least I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>(Chorus repeats)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Breaking down the lyrics, Alexia describes a relationship with another woman, while also describing a struggle with their mental health. This song is unlike many of the other songs that I have analyzed for this project in that it clearly describes a queer relationship. Between these lyrics that announce to the audience that the lead singer has been, and still wants to be in a relationship with a woman, as well as the name of the band the lead singer is in, it&#8217;s pretty clear that heteronormativity is pretty far from the identity of this band and their music.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Another thing about the lyrics is the context of them; they are pretty blunt and forceful lyrics. Alexia doesn&#8217;t sing of delicate, beautiful things; Alexia is singing about their individualistic identity as it relates to their romantic life and their &#8220;demons&#8221; of drinking to deal with their problems. Although any gender can fall prey to these mental issues, typically in the rock and alternative music industry, you hear a lot more men singing about women they like and their drinking issues. It is not as common to hear someone who identifies as female or who&#8217;s sex is female but their gender is differing to sing about this.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Alexia&#8217;s personal Instagram as well as the band&#8217;s official Instagram reveal more about the gender identity of the members. The three person band is composed of one male, and two women (again, Alexia goes by the pronouns they\/them). Their outward style and expression has traits that are gender fluid, such as the women dressing in suits and the man dressing in a suit that has a peter-pan collar- a fashion trend that is targeted towards women and is generally regarded as feminine.<\/p>\n<p>Alexia themselves tend to dress in clothing that is associated with femininity, like crop tops, short-shorts, lace, satin, and skirts. But Alexia tends to wear t-shirts and pants most often and casually. Their hair is worn in a longer\/shoulder-length style but is kept more tussled and messy. Alexia doesn&#8217;t wear much makeup and overall tends to stick to a more androgynous-grunge style.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Overall, the band Destroy Boys defiantly uses their music platform to express their gender identity in not just their appearance, but in their music too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The song I analyzed for my 19th post is the song &#8220;Drink&#8221; by Destroy Boys. 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